As the Founder, CEO and Chief Cupid of TrainCan At Amore Paradise, I am acting as the advocate of "How A Pre-Boy-Girl Relationship" would be by going through "Yes" or "No" response on the Do's and Don't list as suggested below.
Go after the man who is good at planning by telling you his plan far ahead in everything which including how he would want it in a relationship. I am here to lead you to date a leader with planning such as 1-week plan, 1-month plan, 1-year plan, 5-year plan, 10-year plan and etc. Those men who are good at planning, they are definitely a good catch because they are the leaders of big corporations or those who are managing multi-million dollar or multi-billion dollar projects. It is your choice to choose a leader who is good at planning or you like a small fly who is good at giving you surprises without any planning such as taking off your clothes and at the same time kissing your body without asking for your permission.
I am going to alert all boys and girls to discuss about what are the do's and don't before they start a boy-girl relationship to avoid disappointments and break-out. To me, I prefer a "No Kissing, No Physical Contact and No Sex before Married" boy-girl relationship, just like a Muslim couple because I have more than 300++ of men who are going after me at the same time while I'm only very focusing to my love at first sight lucky man in year 2009 through YouTube until very recently. Is he going to marry me or am I going to marry another man?
Let's explore some are the common do's and don't of majority couples in Malaysia with strictly NO SEX. If you want sex with your girlfriend, you may discuss and plan it with her in advance just like you are planning for marriage so that she can prepare herself in sexy clothes with good smell, yet, not recommendable to have pre-marital sex to maintain our culture and values as Malaysians.
Do's:
1) Kiss on forehead and cheeks which need not take off girls' and boys' clothes. Girls are encouraged to wear Baju Kurung.
2) Sharing room or beds during traveling locally or overseas time. Note: You must trust him as a good person before you as a girl agree to share a room with her by telling him that during the sharing, no any romance at all.
3) Cook and bake cakes together.
4) Shopping together.
5) Swim together.
6) Telling bed time stories together.
7) Enjoy a driving trip together.
8) Enjoy morning walk together.
Don't:
1) No kissing on the girls' body at all since girls must be wearing Baju Kurung or long sleeves and long pants even though they are not Muslim while I feel that Baju Kurung is such a great invention to avoid sexual lust from men.
2) No Pre-Marital Sex
3) No touching on the girls' body or the boys' body.
4) Strictly no taking off girls' clothes for romance without asking her permission verbally in advance or have it in any planning. You can see your girlfriend's body with a bikini during the swimming together time on a pool not in a room by taking off her clothes.
Messages to girls: As a woman, we must choose a gentleman as a husband who know how to do planning not having any surprises and ad-hoc activities such as going for a trip, sharing a bed and start to have sexual activities without asking girl's permission. Note: girls are used to have brothers and sisters, hence, it is a norm for them to share rooms with boys and yet, they are safe. Thus, do not assume that when the girls who are willing to share a room with you or go for a trip with you might be willing to have sex with you. Did you ask for her permission first before you move on to any sexual activities when you are sharing a bed with her?
If you want to play safe, strongly suggest that you may book two rooms when a couple or girlfriend and boyfriend would want to go for a vacation. Anyway, you must have an idea of how would your dating experience must be by working on relationship planning.
Enjoy dating!
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