Tuesday, June 1, 2021

Why I have suggested my students and my virtual children to find their husband and wife during school/ university life?

I have many admirers since my school days until now.  My admirers had proposed to me to be their girlfriend during school time, however, I rejected them one by one mainly because my parents told me that no boyfriend-girlfriend relationship during school days.  I did not have any boyfriend-girlfriend relationship during my Ph.D. study even though it was at my 30's because my parents said no romance at all during study time.  At my age of 42 years old very soon, I am here to inform or suggest my students and my virtual children that they can have a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship with the principle of holding tight with the old tradition and culture that "no kissing, no touching, no physical contact and no sex before marriage" and "to announce to the world that they are getting married with ceremony and celebration with family members and friends by informing their girlfriend's parents officially with presents, gifts and money for the intention and seriousness to tight the knot".  I deeply believe that all men must be brave enough to confront their love feeling on the women first or continuously pursuing the women for a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship or a marriage even though the women might be rejected their love for many times.  Also, I have to highlight that only women can initiate intimacy with physical action first with mutual agreement verbally face-to-face and not any wrong perceptions with non-verbal or going through any of the digital communication or chit-chat media for the mutual agreement of intimacy within any boyfriend-girlfriend relationship to avoid any sexual harassment court cases from the women against the men.  Personally, I think brave men must confess their love towards elegance cum intelligence women face-to-face as the best option and convey their purpose of marriage during the proposal time or state their purpose of marriage in their personal website or any social media platform.

My purpose of marriage is to grow old together with a wise, intellectual, independent, wealthy, trustworthy, well-traveled, influential gentleman with our children and he must have the greatest influential power to lead me and our children towards a better future as well as with our contribution as a family, we must be the leaders of our community, nation and the world towards a few or all UN Sustainable Development Goals and beyond; slowly and sooner towards PERFECTIONISM, i.e. a Utopia which started within our family first, then, our community, our nation and sooner, our family's next generations with good genes to be able to inherit our advocacy of humanity towards perfectionism for the world within 22nd century and beyond as our family's main ultimate final goal to change the world by forming a better place to live for all individuals by cultivating more leaders with humanity.  I am playing many roles in my community and nation with my great joy and self-proud to share with you my Amazon dot com Book Author Profile, https://www.amazon.com/-/e/B08WCP82HB/.  Hope that you can read all my books to get to know me better. 
           
Tell you something about some of my admirers.  

Of course, I met some of my admirers who did not have well-educated parents to guide them on how to commit or initiate a good standard girlfriend-boyfriend relationship with the best quality and values and themselves with low-quality education as they have born and raised with low well-being even though they might be studied in one of the top schools such as Kolej Tuanku Ja'afar or universities such as National University Singapore (NUS) and they had requested pre-marital sex or initiated pre-sex sexual activities which I had defined them as sexual maniacs with sexual harassment cases which infringed my privacy, purity, dignity and respect as I am a woman.  I met all the best of the best top universities graduates cum my admirers around the world such as graduates from the University of Oxford, University of Cambridge, Yale University, Harvard University, Massachusetts Institute of Technology, Stanford University, Carnegie Mellon University, India Institute of Technology, Technical University of Munich and many others, they respect me as the elegance woman with purity and intelligence without asking for sex or initiated any pre-sex sexual activities or you all known them as intimacy.  Their principle is very simple, they will let the women initiate the intimacy to avoid any sexual harassment cases.  The Prime Minister of United Kingdom, Boris Johnson is a University of Oxford graduate and a Catholic who just got married the third time in year 2021 by having the claim that her current wife approached him continuously before their marriage even though he has a very tight workload and schedules.  According to him, as long as the women initiated the pre-sex sexual activities first, then, the men must definitely safe from any sexual harassment charges if there were any.  Since we are all adults according to him, if both parties, man and woman would like to have pre-marital sex with mutual agreements and consequences, that would be fine even though there are religious beliefs.  Well, his opinion is definitely not representing all University of Oxford graduates, all British and all Catholics, however, we must think and react later; "See, Think, Enlighten, then, Follow!" ~Sunshine Little Kitchen: The World Traveling Logs In 365 Days authored by me, Hui-Shin Wong.  

Also, I have started "Virtual Mom" or "All-Rounded Virtual Mom - www.facebook.com/all.rounded.virtual.mom" after I initiated the book title and content in year 2008 and the book writing completion in February this year; a book called "My Children's Guide Book": Do you want a mom like me?  I can be your virtual mom.  I am the Founder, CEO and Virtual Mom No. 1 of "Virtual Mom" or "All-Rounded Virtual Mom" by answering questions from all my virtual children around the world through one of my Quora profiles, www.quora.com/profile/hui-shin-wong-1 to accumulate traction to attract investment funds from investors worldwide to contribute my effort towards UN Sustainable Development Goals, 1) Good Health and Well-Being and 2) Reduced Inequalities especially provide the consultation or chit-chat sessions between trained virtual mom/ virtual parent from USA, UK and Europe as the majority and majority virtual children in Sub-Saharan Africa and Latin America.  Of course, all virtual mom(s)/ virtual parents and virtual children from all over the world are welcome to join this mission for a better world.    

For your information, Boris Johnson is one of my good friends when I was in the United Kingdom in year 2007-2009.  If you are his admirers, no worry because you might be his wife at his fourth marriage, fifth marriage or sixth marriage by filing a third-time, fourth-time and fifth-time divorce in his life.  

When I was 14 years old during high school, I rejected one of my admirers.  4 years later, he got married at the age 20 years old with my high school best friend.  He is a medical doctor specialist now with a few children and his children are all undergraduates or graduates with boyfriend and girlfriend by having the intention to get married very soon. 

My story with a mistake to reject one of my admirers: If I ignored my parents' words when I was 16 years old, then, I might be a medical doctor specialist's wife now with adult children.

Next: When I was 23 years old in year 2003 during my Master of Science Information Technology study, I had some clutches with my university young and caliber Assistant Professors.  One of them is a graduate of Harvard University and his principle was that a woman should take the initiative to tackle her Mr. Right.  I listened and kept his words; yet, my mother said no boyfriend-girlfriend relationship during my study and I make a mistake by ignoring his words, the Harvard graduate's words at that time and what I should do at that time was telling him that I could be his girlfriend after I graduated or telling him that I was keen to explore anything more than friendship even though I did not love him at the first sight although he is a Harvard University graduate.  Now, I am teaching all my students and my virtual children that when you meet a graduate from Harvard University or any the best of the best top universities, you must treat them like an VVIP in your life and you must have the great intention to know them more because these top universities graduates are the worldwide leaders who are having the great and heavy responsibilities to shape, to form and to lead the world by making a difference.  Do you want to find a Havard University graduate as your girlfriend or boyfriend?  Check for more detail at TrainCan At Amore Paradise, www.TrainCan-At-Amore-Paradise.com and www.facebook.com/TrainCan.  For your information, this is one of my startups.  

My best friend during my postgraduate study took the initiative to tackle an Assistant Professor during school time and they got married straight away after the final semester's examination.  They happily have a few children and they are based in the United States and America now with frequent travel to overseas for family holiday. 
    
My story with a mistake to reject one of my admirers: If I took the opportunity to tackle the Harvard University graduate Assistant Professor at this time, I must be his wife and now I should be located in Cambridge, United States of America with many teenager children.  It was 18 years ago.

In year 2007-2009, when I was an Academic Visitor at the University of Cambridge, one of my admirers is a Stanford University graduate cum University of Cambridge graduate now.  I did not know that it was a MUST for me to tackle him while he was a student.  Anyway, I am pretty sure that he has many admirers too and he must be forgetting me, I guess.  I called him a few times and he did not pick up my phone calls.       

Also, I wish to point out that at my age, all my undergraduate and postgraduate university mates are mostly the Head of the Department or the Director of the company and they are earning not less than RM 20,000 a month in Malaysia and many other places in the world.  

Dear my students and my virtual children, 

You can tight the knot after your high school, pre-u, undergraduate study, postgraduate or your early career development stage by having children because both of you secure the pure and eternal love without many conditions such as unknown financial projection, and also, at the age of 40 years old, you might have a combined income of RM 40,000 monthly with your husband or wife if you get married early.  Most of my friends who got married early with children are all earning good salary while those who are still single now are doing just average only because the Worldwide Economy must take care of quality next generations and at the same time, your children are, then, both of you who are married with children confirmed to be trained and getting good remuneration to educate your children for a better and quality next generations for the community, nation and the world.  RM 480,000 annual income in Malaysia ensures that your family can have a very good lifestyle and also traveling around the world for family holiday or vacation.  For those who are very keen to have the most economical individual vacation, group vacation or/ and family vacation locally or overseas, you can check the opportunities of Free Traveling and Dream Holiday at www.SoLemMi.com which is my first start-up in my life since year 2014.  Subscribe now to gain more excitement! 

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