47 years old and 12 years old have a gap of 35 years

Recently, a 12 years old little girl is crying after she read TrainCan At Amore Paradise check list and a long list of books especially "How ENTJ Woman Fall In Love?"

She cry mainly because she is extremely excellent yet, she can't find a unique personal value from herself to shine like me.  I reply her email and she understand that I am 47 years old.  She know a gap of 35 years is the key success for many individual.  I tell her that within 35 years, she can read more than 500 books, magazine, news, text books and many more.  She can travel to many places within 35 years.  She meet many people within 35 years.  Hence, I urge her to stop crying due to her comparison metric is not correct; how can she compare herself as a 12 years old girl with a 47 years old lady?  I tell her, "You must finish your tertiary education, finish at least a degree, then, a Ph.D. study in order for you to have an idea the unique personal value is.". 

I'm Hui-Shin Wong, Wong Hui Shin and also known as Shyan H. Wong.