Cuisine Studio @ Tropicana

It was a candle light dinner for 10 people from many parts of the world at a Cuisine Studio, Restaurant Leisure Cooking School Gourmet Shop at Tropicana Golf and Country Resort. It was a business meeting related to investment. It said strictly no pork!

"They are doing very well! Look at the children. The children are doing better than their parents. Good job, parents!"

"To me, children are a good return of investment (ROI) business. Thus, I never agree those people who choose not to have children. You must have more children if you can afford it because we are good candidates to produce the next generation for a better community."

"Her parent is blue collar, but, it is not her parent's fault to become a blue collar, right? It is unfair to benchmark one's success using one metric scale. They are not poor and, yet, you're not very rich. We can not judge based on our experience."

"Who tell you that the definition of successful is measured by how much one is earning at a period of time?"

"How? I wonder. What is successful?"

"Invest in the share market? I guarantee you are the successful one.  Kenanga Investment Bank Berhad Advisors are ready to serve you."

"Haha! I wonder what is your point. It is just an advertisement for your employer. Hey! Don't forget, I am from United Kingdom. We have many capable investment advisors. Is that sounds good if I headhunt them to work as your associate partners?"

"It sounds great! Besides, we have many foreign investment banks in Malaysia. You may check out the Credit Suisse."

"I have my own account opened in United Kingdom before I landed Malaysia."

"I think you are measuring the success using the risk and time factor. Your meaning of success is to use the shortest time to gain the most money?"

"It is never my cup of tea. Investment means detail research to grab the potential stocks for a better return. It is never the shortest time to gain the most money. It is an applied skill. You know I always like green tea. I like the healthy competition and investment for an organization to grow. Green, clear, calm, healthy and wealth. Welcome to Malaysia! Cheers!"

"Cheers!"

It was a mixture of wines and sparking juice for 10 people from different background and different religion belief.

"Everyone loves their country very much and, everyone loves to explore to the other part of the world. They migrated for reasons."

"I guess it is related to a Chinese saying,"the moon in Overseas is always bigger than home."

"It is not true. I always believe that home is the best."

"Home is not where you are, it is where you are comfortable with."

"They migrate because they want to study for free."

"They migrated because they found a husband or a wife in Overseas."

"Malaysia become a tourist spot because the migrated Malaysian came back to Malaysia to spend money. They helped Malaysia to grow."

"I just moved from United States to this country. I have a business here. I am here to serve, to contribute and to invest. I see Malaysia is a potential country to grow. It is a wonderful country with wonderful people around."

"I love Malaysian. I wish I can settle down with an understanding Malaysian woman."

The firecrackers lighted up at the sky. It is a Deepavali celebration for Indians. It is a festival of lights.

"Wow! It is gorgeous."

"Gorgeous! It is illegal to have the firecrackers on the sky."

"No! I read from the Newspaper, the government said we can apply for a licence to light the firecrackers in some events."

"Look at that! It is a smoky sky with colorful lights for only a few minutes. Are you sure you like the temporary victory and yet a health hazard for a consequence."

"No firecrackers burning should be allowed! It caused pollution."

"It is so sad that not many people in Malaysia are helping to solve the environmental issues. The political parties are not concerning the environmental issues."

"What's next?"

"People move out from a country for their own reasons. Study, job, better pay, better investment opportunity...... At the same time, many of us from Overseas come to Malaysia because it is a wonderful country."

"The environment needs your help. Are you going to extend your hands to help?"

"Wonderful! We should invest more in renewable energy to save the world; to eliminate pollution."

Sunshine Little Kitchen

This is the outlook of my book, "Sunshine Little Kitchen - 陽光小廚房". This is my first book publication. Those were true stories with replaced names and venue for the incidents to protect their privacy and identity for any security reasons. There are Asia Edition (English and Chinese version) and International Edition (English version only). Please be patient for the launching date! It is my extra efforts and passion to work on a book for 10 years by traveling the world to look for the causes and solution of miscommunication.

Besides, I have many queries in my mind during my growing up process. Due to lack of reliable resources around me, I have to travel around the world to solve the "puzzle"! It can not denied that Internet and Books provide information. However, I am skeptical to believe the knowledge and the information gathered from the Internet and some books. I am very stubborn because I believe my principle of life is correct; those information from some books and Internet are wrong. Thus, I have traveled the world to work on a research for the solution of my queries. Eventually, I found the answers for a better place to live for human beings.

"There is no absolutely right or wrong for every situation and every information. It is always a grey area because we are Human Beings. This is the knowledge about Ethics, Economics, Politics and Law. " - Ms. Wong Hui Shin.

It is an interesting knowledge. I would like to share my findings for a better place to live for everyone in the world.

"My life is a lot of hard work even though I always have a smile on my face and I look extremely good, confidence and prosperous. I was born in a decent and respectful family which needs a lot of hard work for living. My parent and my grandparent are farmers. I used to work in farm under the sun when I was young. It is never a poor, but, yet, only a decent life. Please remember: One is rich today doesn't mean that one is rich in future; One is poor today doesn't mean that one is poor in future. Thus, please stop being funny and do your job. Please be fair to everyone: poor, rich, smart, dumb, capable, ordinary, disable and many other unfortunate people. Please provide a better place to live for everyone." - Ms. Wong Hui Shin.

Also, I urged everyone to learn how to think like a globalist because there were many good people out there. Look at them as an example to work on your dream.

"Never and ever expect one will be the same all time. Everyone is improving to become a better person at every minute. If you saw someone is static and not improving, please provide helps and not criticisms because he/she is suffering. Some are not expressive enough will not be able to tell you what's wrong. Therefore, you must be intelligent enough to spot his/ her problem by giving appropriate helps. Sometimes it is a growing up and learning process, it takes time. You can't help a Padi plant to grow longer by pulling it one inch higher from the soil. The Padi plant will die. You're not helping, but, you kill it instantly by ignorance with a good heart. War might be happened due to miscommunication." - Ms. Wong Hui Shin.

My book comprises 10 stories around the world; Malaysia, Thailand, Korea, Japan, Republic of Maldives, Republic of Egypt, United States of America, India, Sri Lanka, United Arab of Emirate, Qatar, United Kingdom, Italy, Germany, France, Spain, Belgium, Hungary, Czech Republic and Indonesia. You may find them interesting and hilarious. The most important it shows the hopes for everyone to dream; nothing is impossible.

The 10 stories are listed below:

1. The Golden Triangle

2. Hwaseong Fortress

3. Sapporo Snow Festival

4. The President of Maldives

5. The Nile River

6. The Great Lake Erie

7. The Alternative of Route 66

8. The Greatest Surprise

9. Valentine's Day

10. Sunshine Little Kitchen

It is expected for sales latest in February 2010! Watch up! I wish you can get the book instantly; now! However, in reality, we have to wait and see.

I need your support! Thank you very much!

Additional note on 11st February 2010: The publication of "Sunshine Little Kitchen" has called for a delay. I will inform you once the book is ready.

这是我的书，“阳光小厨房” 的前景。

这是我第一次出版小说或非小说类项的书本。我写的都是已更换名称,时间和地点的真实故事，以保障故事中的主角的安全,任何隐私和身份为理由。“阳光小厨房” 将会有亚洲版（英文和中文版）和国际版（英文版本）。谢谢你们的耐心等待书本的发售日期！这是我用10年工作的额外努力和热诚，周游世界，俭吃省用，寻找沟通不畅的原因和解决办法而写的故事书。

此外，我也在寻找成长过程中的种种疑问。我很固执，我只相信我的人生原则是正确的。我很怀疑从互联网上和一些书籍和资料收集到的知识。因此，我要周游世界来查询及解决在我脑海里的“谜”！

“因为我们是人，所以，各种情况和每一个信息都是一个灰色领域，没有绝对正确或错误的理论。这是有关于道德伦理，经济，政治和法律的知识。” – 黄慧欣。

这是一门很有趣的知识。我想分享一个在世界上我发现的更好居住的地方。

“尽管我一直都有微笑，信心和繁荣，我的生活是艰苦的工作。我出生于很体面和尊敬的家庭，我们也需要为生活而努力工作。我的父母和我的祖父母是农民。在我年轻时，我曾经在阳光下的农场工作。我们从来都不是穷人，但是，只有一个体面的生活。请记住：一个富有的今天并不意味着一个富有的未来。一个贫穷的今天并不意味着一个人贫穷的未来。谨请大家提供一个更好居住的地方给穷人，富人，聪明的，愚蠢的，有能力的，普通的。“– 黄慧欣。

此外，我希望大家学习全球很多人的例子去达到您的梦想。

“每个人都在每1分钟的改变，成为更好的人。如果你看到一个没有进步的人，请给于帮助而不是批评。如果他们不能告诉你他们的错和问题。你必须聪明的给予他们适当帮助。有时一些问题是一个成长与学习的过程，它需要时间去消化和解决。您不能从土壤中拉植物一英寸高以帮助它生长，它会死去。你不但没有帮助它，而且，你的无知与善良的心杀了一些你要去帮忙的人。战争发生的原因是误传。“– 黄慧欣。

我的书有10个由世界各地的故事，马来西亚，泰国，韩国，日本，马尔代夫，埃及共和国，美利坚合众国，印度，斯里兰卡，美国的酋长国，卡塔尔，英国，意大利，德国，法国共和国阿拉伯国家，西班牙，比利时，匈牙利，捷克共和国和印度尼西亚。您可能会发现它们有趣。最重要这些故事显示了没有什么是不可能的，大家的梦想和希望都可以实现。

10个故事如下：

1。金三角
2。华城
3。札幌雪节
4。马尔代夫总统
5。尼罗河
6。伊利湖
7。66号公路的替代品
8。最伟大的惊喜
9。情人节
10。阳光小厨房

书本预计在2010年2月最新销售！我们要拭目以待。

我需要你们的多多支持！我先向大家说声谢谢！

这是2010年2月10日的补充说明：我延迟 “阳光小厨房”的出版。我会通知你们一旦我的书已准备就绪。

Values.com

“Imagination is more important than knowledge. For while knowledge defines all we currently know and understand, imagination points to all we might yet discover and create.” —Albert Einstein (1875-1955), theoretical physicist, philosopher

Personal Quote

"Dare to talk, dare to write, dare to accept critics and dare to make necessary correction to improve!" - Ms. Wong Hui Shin

What + If = IEEE

If there's one phrase that drives IEEE members, it's "what if."

It's what you find between an idea and the reality of discovery. In fact, IEEE members have helped lead every major technical development of the last 125 years.

That's why when you need to draw on the knowledge of yesterday's pioneers or witness the innovation of tomorrow's dreamers, you'll see how "what if" keeps IEEE members engineering the future - one answer at a time.

Celebrating 125 years of Engineering the Future.

www.ieee125.org

Source: IEEE Communications Magazine - September 2009, Vol. 47, No. 9

Personal Quote

"See, Think, Enlighten, then, Follow (STEF)!" - Ms. Wong Hui Shin

The Ending of the Experiments!

I would like to say thank you to everyone involve in my research; Human Communication. It is a hobby and it has nothing to do with my academic progress and career. I started the research since 2003 when I enrolled an MSc Information Technology in Malaysia University of Science and Technology (MUST). I have done a technical thesis to fulfill an MSc Information Technology graduation requirement in 2005. And, I got a job straight away to work as a lecturer in Multimedia University, Cyberjaya, Selangor, Malaysia (MMU) with a Masters because Malaysia did not have enough knowledge workers who had a Ph.D. for lecturer positions at that time. I delayed my job reporting date to MMU. I went to United States of America to work on a "puzzle - Human Communication" by getting a job in Pennsylvania.

I wasn't sure what, how, which, when, who and where to start a self-help research due to lack of exposure in non technology related topics. I prayed to God, so that God could enlighten me to complete the puzzle. Even though I am a Buddhist, but, I believe in God. It is interesting to know about my story to study Buddhism as the philosophy of life. Through a series of growing up activities in London, I found the secret of the world with a few assumptions applied. I chose to keep quiet because I enjoyed the Art and the simplification version of learning methodologies for all range of human beings in the world to become a better individual; poor, rich, tall, short, smart, dumb, technology-savvy, non technology savvy ...... I admired those who were intelligent and innovative enough to create the "Art" to solve the social problem which adopted to human beings behavior.

"Good job to the world creator(s)!" said Wong Hui Shin.

According to Oxford Advance Learner's English-Chinese Dictionary, Religion is defined as belief in the existing of God or Gods, who has/ have created the universe and given man a spiritual nature which continues to exist after the death of the body.

According to the definition, Buddhism is not a religion. It is a philosophy of life. It is just like a moral subject. It should be studied by all. My good friend converted to become a Muslim because he felt in love with a Muslim lady and yet, he still attended Buddhism talks. I studied comparative religions because I was curious about religions. I found Islam is a good religion for human beings. I studied Christianity, I found it is a drive for development, innovation and initiative. Buddhism is a way of life and not a religion; it is the culture of the world.

Later, I knew many new era religions in London and yet, I appreciated the root of knowledge of religions.

I would like to apologize for creating many stories to know about the human beings' connection. I did not have any intention to know about human behavior and yet, through my research path, I knew about it.

I went through some research online, I discovered 1) The reasons why human beings reacted as such; 2) The reasons for war and conflicts; 3) The solution for miscommunication; 4) the root causes of miscommunication and 5) The important of spiritual support and team work to do a good job.

It was my honored to know all great people everywhere. I was surprised that all of us were connected in this world. It was very interesting. Thank you for opportunities for me to get to know many famous people in the world. I had met one third of The Evening Standard's "The 1000 - London's Most Influential People 2007" when I was in London.

"Mark Zuckerberg, nice to meet you at South West Train. I am a Malaysian and not a Thai even though I behave gently just like a Thai," said Wong Hui Shin.

An Indian gave me the black book, "The 1000 - London's Most Influential People 2007" at a newspaper store near Kew Garden tube station in September 2007.

"Young lady, this is for you. You will be listed as one of the Influential People in London one day. Work hard and be a good girl!" said an Indian with a friendly voice.

"I want to publish a book. It is called Sunshine Little Kitchen", I said when I worked as a waitress at Sawyer Arm at Paddington to a group of 4 Canadians in year 2007. I was on my travel and work holiday VISA to United Kingdom.

The book publication is not a story. It is a passion of 10 years of traveling to solve a puzzle of miscommunication.

To clear the public confusion about me, I am a single lady with no children and no marriage records. I am sorry for any inconveniences caused. I do not know how to reject admirers nicely. I have created some stories to protect myself. Who know it leads to bad consequences? I did not know people are well connected to each other and the words traveled from Bali, Indonesia to every places in Malaysia till Venice, Italy, London, England and Brooklyn, New York. It is amazing! I am within a great connection to reach the top people. Bravo and excited!

Watch up for my first book - Sunshine Little Kitchen! It is a collection of stories from everywhere in the world when I take the initiative to travel the world to solve a "puzzle". The puzzle is a solution to solve the world social problem.

As a result of limited reliable information/ resources around me and a feeling of no-trust about the information posted on the web pages and the cultural differences to interpret the information, I have traveled the world to look for the meaning of a boy-girl relationship because I never believe a boy-girl relationship must have sex before marriage.

In addition, I am skeptical about contraception before marriage because it causes social problem particularly among those immature teenagers. I rejected a charming, intelligent, rich and powerful man's proposal to become his girl friend because he asked for co-habitation and sex before marriage as a result of how he learned a boy-girl relationship should be working when he studied in Overseas for years. I thought about that for very long time, later, I said, "No"! We remained our friendship until now. He is a very nice guy. He is married now. I was very happy to hear about his marriage. I understood that I was not into him at all.

"See, Think, Enlighten, then Follow" - Ms. Wong Hui Shin

I was very sad when I heard from some young ladies' experience in a boy-girl relationship when I was a volunteer in a counseling team. Those girls told me that the men who have been staying in overseas for years tend to say that sex was a must in a boy-girl relationship. Through an intensive research with my initiative to travel the world for the 'puzzle', I would like to pass an important message to the world; "Only a confirmed relationship contains sex elements." Of course, it is a sad moment when there is something happened. The relationship can't sustain and it leads to a break up and divorced.

Adeline Jens told me about her relationship with her boy friend, "we are sort of married even though we have not gone through the official ceremony yet. I am pretty confirmed that he will be my husband unless there is something happen."

The American recording artist, actress and entrepreneur, Madonna Loius Ciccone is also known as the Queen of Pop gives the wrong influences to her admirers about her private life. Thus, the next generation's mindset should be corrected. The Christian Groups in United States has started the the Silver Ring Thing movement, i.e. the introduction of the purity ring to be worn on the ring finger for the purpose of alerting teenagers about "No Sex before Marriage" in a relationship. Muslims' teaching against "pre-marital sex".

How about those who are not religious? Should you do some campaigns to pass a message to the young generation particularly those protected groups from developing countries and poor countries? They might be confused by the movies and media about the true definition of a boy-girl relationship those days.

Recently, I watched some Hong Kong, Taiwanese and Korean movie series. It had projected what I had been saying for years; "a boy-girl relationship without kissing, intimate activities and sex before marriage. Eventually, it leads to a marriage". Watch "My Wife Is A Gambling Maestro (VCD) (Hong Kong Version)"!

Young people, "See, Think, Enlighten, then follow!" Don't follow blindly.