Friday, April 26, 2019

Western and Eastern Culture and Romance

Before you start a pre-marital relationship with a man or a woman, ensure that you clarify and ask him or her on what type of romance stages he or she would want to adopt during a pre-marital relationship when a man or a woman confess his or her admiration, care and love to you so that you can be his girlfriend or her boyfriend.  If he or she can't give you the answer, then, you tell him or her that you want a pre-marital relationship which only 1) can kiss/ touch on the lips, face and hands, or, 2) can have sex, i.e. the man's penis can penetrate into the woman's vagina, or, 3) no kissing, no touching and no sex.

From the Science perspective, the definition of sex is the penetration of the man's penis into the woman's vagina with mutual agreement between the man and the woman.  If the penetration of the man's penis to a woman's vagina can't reach the mutual agreement between the man and the woman, meaning it is a RAPE case.  If the kissing and touching on any parts of his or her body reaching the mutual agreement between the man or the woman, we can call that as a romance when you are in a pre-marital relationship else, it would be a SEXUAL HARASSMENT case.               

A lot of people would say that those white men, i.e. the western men would be more stress on the romance when they are in love with girls or women meaning white men want kissing, touching and sex during a relationship before their reach the marriage stage.  Through my understanding of my research in "World Peace", I understand from a lot of people from a dating website or mobile apps that we can not categorize people's romance stages by listing them as western people and eastern people.

Only some white men would stress on romance while they are in love, definitely not all white men who wish to have romance within a pre-marital relationship.  There are many denomination/ categories of white men because they believe in Christianity and Christianity has many denominations/ categories.  I am very lucky because I met more than 99% of white men who are Christians (Catholics) and they believe in Saints (St.) as well as they are practicing no kissing, no touching and no sex before marriage.

I also met a lot of Indian who are Hindu whereby they are practicing no kissing, no touching and no sex before marriage.  Of course, a lot of Malaysian are into romance meaning they wish to have sex before marriage.  In this issue, we can not categorize the definition and activities being done between couples when they are falling in love from the western people and eastern people perspective.  I would say that the eastern people and the western people are being categorized as PEOPLE with different level of satisfaction in terms of the type of activities and romance they are going to do when they are falling in love. 

Ladies and gentlemen, ensure that you have a full conversation with your potential girlfriend or boyfriend about what type of romance in a pre-marital relationship you are going to have when you are his girlfriend or her boyfriend.  Ensure that you are not shy to ask and clarify your needs and believe in a pre-marital relationship.  Of course, not all people are verbal enough to express their needs and what they want in a pre-marital relationship.  A lot of times, the couple ended up being naked to each other and having a good companionship to share a bed for one or more nights.  From those women who are very conservative especially those very innocent women who are born and raised from a small town/ village or those women who can't get any teaching or advise from their conservative parents about what are the do's and don't within a pre-marital relationship, they were more towards on they didn't know what and how to response when their clothes were being taken off.  They did not know how to react they were kissed with a naked body.  They also did not know what should they reacted when they were sharing a bed for a night.  After the next day, they went to work or go for classes individually.  The innocent women would be very lucky if their men did not penetrate the penis into the vagina, yet, they were raped and they did not aware about the rape case can lead to a court case and jail sentences.  The pre-marital relationship would call for a full stop if the man and the woman did not contact each other after they spend a night together.  For the innocent women, definitely they found guilty and they kept calling themselves as stupid because they did not know how and what to react when their boyfriend took out their clothes piece by piece.

Some casualty women ended up with sickness, i.e. depression because they kept blaming themselves that they were a stupid because they were naked or being raped for only one night or once.  A lot of women, they reluctant to have any pre-marital relationship because they have their past experiences.

Ladies, if you meet the situation above, please be alert to tell your boyfriend that you are very into him as he is charming, however, you must tell him that you want to have sex only after a marriage.  Of course, if you agree on the level of romance you are going to have, then, you are fine.  Prince Henry or Harry from United Kingdom got married with a divorcee, i.e. an American actress, Meghan Markle.  She was married for two years and then, a divorce; definitely, she is not a virgin.  She just did what she like to do and she was actively involved in charity works and traveling.  Eventually, she found her true love with Prince Henry/ Harry.

Don't give up if you are not a virgin by forcing or innocently.  As I said in my previous blog posts, from Science perspective, everyone is clean after 30 days due to cells rejuvenation, i.e. our skin surface layers will feel off one level by level.  Use some scraps or body shampoo to cleanse your body, i.e. lips, hands, legs, and etc..               

Hereby, we wish that Prince Henry/ Harry and Meghan Markle can be a couple until they die, love forever.  It is a blessing from the GOD to this couple so that they are going to have their first baby very soon.         

Research, interviews and survey were done to have such finding above.  I will add on if I have more inputs and finding.  Thank you for your collaboration and participation in my "World Peace" research.  I told a medical doctor that my blog, "Malaysian Footprint" is my ongoing study and research output towards "WORLD PEACE".  Thank you.     


Thursday, April 11, 2019

Photo Editing or Superimposing Photo Competition

To whom who are interested to win a free traveling package,

                 I am glad to inform you that www.SoLemMi.com is going to organize a local competition called  "Photo Editing or Superimposing Photo Competition" to win a free traveling package.  We wish to invite all people who reside in Malaysia now until 30th September 2019 to join the competition.  The management is finalizing the Assessment and Evaluation Panels, as well as the rules and regulation of the competition.  One of the rules is that you need to edit or superimpose your photo using a photo editor in our website, www.SoLemMi.com/superimposing.html and export to the image file or you can use Adobe Photoshop to work on that.   

To be announced in the media for the official launch.

Keep you posted. 


Your's sincerely,
Ms. Wong Hui Shin
Founder and CEO of www.SoLemMi.com