Tuesday, April 11, 2017

Sharing accommodation and sleeping side by side by doing nothing!

When I was in central London, I was staying in a dorm which 18 of us sharing a big room.  18 of us are from all over the world and we are the combination of male and female in a room.  When I was younger, I am sharing a room and sleeping side by side with my younger brothers in my home town since my father only afford to have a 3 room bungalow and the ability to born 6 children.  I am traveling far to study my secondary school study by renting a room near the school and away from home since twelve years old by beginning the 6 years in Ipoh, Perak, Malaysia, later, a two years in Penang, Malaysia, 2 years in Cyberjaya, Selangor, Malaysia, 18 months in Kelana Jaya, Selangor, Malaysia, 6 months in Paddington, London, United Kingdom, 3 months in North Springfield, Lake Erie, PA, USA and many more.  After I came back from my 1 month traveling across the states in United States of America after I graduated with a Master of Science, I reported to Multimedia University (MMU), Cyberjaya to work as a lecturer for 9 years and 3 months.  During my service in MMU, I am extremely active in volunteering activities and outdoor activities as usual.  I remember one time, I am invited by my good friend, Dr. Terry Lee Lean Hiap to attend a hiking trip with his classmates from Medical School to Gunung Stong, Kelantan.  It was about a week hiking trip.  We are 7 in a group.  Within all days, 7 of group sleeping side by side in a small space in the jungle.  I was sleeping side by side with Dr. Terry Lee Lean Hiap by doing nothing while enjoying the nature of the jungle.  Dr.  Terry Lee Lean Hiap is just like my brother and we know each other since high school while he was elected to become the President of Leo Club of SMJK Poi Lam and I was elected as the Membership Director in the club in year 19995, 1996 or 1997.  He is definitely a good man with the high values of knowing how to respect woman and good friend.  Currently, Dr. Terry Lee Lean Hiap is a Medical Doctor Skin Specialist who is practicing in Ipoh, Perak, Malaysia.  Look for him if you have any skin problem, https://www.mydoc.asia/doctor/dr-terry-lee-lean-hiap.  He is married with children.  We are good friends.  Besides, Dr. Terry Lee Lean Hiap, I have many other friends who are qualified medical doctors now who are practicing in all over the world because I am a let-go medical degree student.    

I can share a space in the jungle, I might be able to share a space in a hotel room for the budget wise.  Only sleeping side by side by doing nothing.  Just think about we all are brothers and sisters in a middle class family with a lot of children which is practicing sharing a room.  Do not think that if you are sharing a room or sleeping side by side, it will lead to any sex relationship.  Other people might have it while I can swear that I never have sex so far when I share a room with a man or more men when I am in a dorm.  We are not even touching each other.  Of course, we have a lot to talk especially introducing my country, Malaysia and a lot of tourists spots.  

1 comment:

James Andrew said...

I wouldn't mind sharing an room accommodation in Malaysia with my close friends, brothers and sisters. But sharing it with a total stranger is a big No ofcourse.